Motherhood

I had a very good Mother's Day. Not only was it my first Mother's Day, but it was also my 25th birthday. The day was extra special to me. It was an honor to be recognized as a mother. I am looking forward to celebrating many more Mother's Day.

Several weeks ago I was asked to speak at a Mother's Day program about what I have learned as a mother. Circumstances did not allow the program to take place, so I was not able to share my thoughts. However, the thoughts continue to linger in mind, so I will share them with all my blogger friends.

I have learned many things as a mom, but there are five that really stick out in my mind.

1. I learned that if you want people to come visit you, then you need to have a baby (LOL). Several people in Eddie's family came to visit us when Heidi was born. The last time they traveled to Texas was for our wedding. The thought to fly to Texas never crossed their minds until they heard they were getting a grandchild.
2. I learned that God will answer your prayers in the middle of the night. One night when Heidi was just a few weeks old, she started crying intensely for what seemed liked an hour. No matter what we did she would not stop crying. The thought of taking her to the ER crossed our minds. However, I saw Eddie go to the pantry and get out the oil. I knew what he was fixing to do. He poured some oil on his finger, anointed our baby's head with it, and we began to pray. Within a few minutes Heidi stopped crying and was able to sleep peacefully. God heard our midnight cry and he met our need. We later realized that she was having gas pains.
3. I have learned that somethings can wait until tomorrow. We are all familiar with the phrase, "Don't put off until tomorrow what you can do today." However, when it comes to watching my daughter grow up, there are things that can wait until another day. I will sacrifice cleaning the house until tomorrow if it means that I can watch Heidi take her first step. Children grow up so fast. I believe it is important that we spend as much time with them as we can, so we don't miss their accomplishments.
4. I have learned to depend on other mothers. I often call my sister or my mother to ask them what they do or did in a certain situation. I also find myself asking many of my friends at church who have children for advice. Without the help of other mothers, I would be totally stressed out. So, thank you mothers for your wisdom and advice.
5. I have learned what responsibility really means. Being the age that I am, I have had lots of responsibilities. However, until I had my baby, I didn't realize the load that responsibility carried. Besides my husband, I am the only one responsible for the precious life God has given me. I am the one responsible for making sure she is fed and cleaned. I am the one who is responsible for her attitude and behavior. I am responsible for her education and for teaching her to love God and others. There is no one else in the world responsible for my daughter except for my husband and me. I must care for this beautiful responsibility God has given me.


Our first Mother's Day together.

My Mother's Day gift.

My surprise birthday party.